The right to emotional support
The right to be heard by the other and to be responded to with courtesy
The right to have your own point of view, even if it differs from your partner's
The right to have your feelings and experiences acknowledged as real
The right to live free form accusation and blame
The right to live free from emotional and physical threat
The right to live free from criticism and judgment
The right to live free from angry outbursts and rage
The right to be respectfully asked, rather than ordered